Well, a little update. Still not much further forward with the car.
Today i went to remove the injectors, to check they are not blocked, although they were fine a few weeks ago.
Realised one of the injector connectors was not fully pressed on, think that was me a few days back.
Nope still no joy. and yesterday found this as well. A couple of the spades had green powdery corrosion on them, was also convinced this was the problem as well. Day before i cleaned these up, i had the opcom connected and it was saying can't connect to ecu. But it was throwing up egr code.


The one remaining thing left is that the alternator is faulty. Possibly i made a Cu*t of the alternator rebuild, or the replacement regulator does not suit the alternator. As the car still jump started before i done the work on that.
I never bench tested the alternator before refitting, maybe that was a mistake.

Took this pic from a thread by @[deleted] . Wonder if the different style regulators caused you any problems.
They are both Bosch. one is done by a company i think called Cargo, which if i'm correct has been bought over by bosch. so should have the same technology.
Took all the relays out, to test them, just to be sure, also bought a multimeter last night. Test diodes etc.
Still leaning towards alternator not quite right.
But if anyone has a few suggestions, I'm all ears.