Ok to close the loop on this.
Found my issue and could genuinely kick myself, basically the car is supercharged and as you all no doubt know that means that its undesired to feed the rocker cover breather back into the intake as it oils up the laminovas.
So what i did was to run a long hose out the rocker cover to the rear of the car, in my wisdom i thought the pipe would get dirty and gritty in the end so I fitted a rubber flap type end on it with a smaller outlet. Problem was under extended periods of idle the engine sucked this closed and the noise started which turned out to be the engine sucking air in through the rear main seal.
I have now fitted a catch can so the engine can breathe air again both ways.
Could I thank you all for your input especially Neil (Vocky) who i had many conversations with, he must have rolled his eyes when he found out what had happened.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkvKb0Om0C0