ok i took it to a garage and had the car plugged into diagnostic, result was faulty egr valve!! the garage fitted a tested used part at no cost to me just to make sure it would fix the rough running, and it did ....for 1 day!!! I'm back to rough running and lumpy tick over now! other jobs that have been tried are clean out throttle body, spark plugs, clean air flow metre etc.... all failed to fix problem, i know if i go back to the garage it will say egr failior again!! One thing to note is the car drives bob on when cold.... it starts instantly, when the engines warm it turns over for a while before it starts!! so ....Any other ideas guys????
many thanks guys!!!