I do not think that you can flash the programme side with the op-com, was just asking if you had attempted anything with it.
Did you change your ECU when rebuilding?
Were there any noticeable electrical shorts when doing the work?
In my lamens brain, either ECU has dropped its programming due to being buggered/another fault or there is interrupted communication somehow however I cannot think how this could logically be the case
Check all the ECU connections - its free and easily checkable then weigh up cost of tech2 reprogramme vs. secondhand ECU?