I like the Cupra mate, very good cars.
I was looking at the new Leon myself the other day actually, was considering getting one next year instead of the VXR if i decide to upgrade. As much as i love the VXR it hasn't got 5 doors and the new leon has.
We're like you, Claire has got a clio and i've got the Astra 🙂 Its a pain in the a*se sometime messing about with the car seat with a three door.
My Astra is ticking over to 62K now and its getting on a bit, 2001 so 8 years old. I may keep it though even if i do get a new car and get rid of Claire's clio instead 🙂 Although that's got half the mileage on it mine has!